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E-word,

I got the Joos tee last week, and also the 'Just paht' stickie. Both are awesome, by the way, thanks a ton.

Sorry for not updating much lately. It's a mixture of being busy at work and being lazy otherwise.

A lot has been going on lately. El and I had a long talk yesterday about how we complement one another as a couple. I'm not super-ambitious, I like being lazy, and I think that it'd be great to be a nice middle-class dude with a small house, small yard, and a small, happy life. El on the other hand is really ambitious and wants to be the best and first at everything. She dreams big and works hard, and doesn't even think of life in terms of small. In a way we're very different, but she has what I want, and I have what she wants. I'm very supportive of her, and want to go out of my way for her success, to be open to her wishes and desires even at my own expense. She tells me she feels very selfish, but she doesn't realize how much she offers me. When she is around she takes care of me, cooks food and cleans the house, and is fairly permissive. I'm a slob, and she deals with it. That might sound like a small thing, but for us it's huge. I go along with her ambition without much complaint, and she goes along with my lazyness without much complaint as well. Sort of, actually El complains a lot but I know she doesn't mean it, she just likes complaining.

The main reason why we're having this discussion lately is because El might be going to Europe for a few months for training. You gotta keep that on the dl, btw, because nothing has been settled yet. I think that El is amazed at how supportive I'm being of her, but I kind of reminded me of Hawaiian C and her husband. I married El because I love her, and I have to do whatever is necessary to keep her happy and content. I cast my lot, you know?

Anyway, hope things are good in D*b, or however we're calling your town nowadays. If El does go to Europe, expect a visit while she's gone!

Toe